Yet another women's day|part 1

Namaste! I am Nirmala 

oh sorry, I am Mr.X's daughter, Mr.Y's wife and Mr. Z's mother , I don't have my own name or my identity. The one like me who is off-putted by my own birth giving parents saying that it wasn't my house and off-putted by my in-laws saying I come from another home have feeling of not belonging to any place that is why I am always off-putted in society as well. Though this physical structure that I hold is mine but just for name, the Sindoor and Pote says this body belongs to someone else,the man.Though the mother nurtures the child in the womb for 9 months, the children are always considered eligible for my in-laws family chronology, If my husband becomes successful I am considered as pillar of his success else if he turns out to be unsuccessful by his own deeds I am considered bad luck to him who brings omen and I even get called as 'bad witch'. My dear husband is so naive,he don't know people praise the building but not the strength,sacrifice and hard work of the pillars for holding the building and we shouldn't be forthcoming, we are just placed under the cover.

 That's my story,that's your story.

Oh,Women's day, not again,you women are given so much privilege like reserved seats in buses, quotas in organizations, we make you come forth saying,''Ladies first'', pulling chair to have your seat in dine and what not, but you always say we don't respect you and keep on blaming us''. Are you kidding me is that our privilege and you have given that to us feeling sorry for us,and not because of the struggle ,the voices and determination of the women from all around the world?

Naturally, men are quite free in terms because of their anatomical structure but women, they are always in cage. I wouldn't consider the responsibility given by the nature as the cage rather it is a blessing to us but I mean there is another cage. Previously the cage was made up of iron but now the cage is made up of gold. Cage is cage, for whatsoever it is made of. Escaping from this cage is quite challenging,don't worry it's not far  from you,it's... in your brain. Women are made to serve men, they are slaves and just one machine to give birth. Since they are understanding and have perceiving emotions they are considered to have null interests,hobbies,love for something,passion, dreams ,desires nothing. A man in Nepal can express his anger,frustration and strong desire for a girl ranging from his song like Nai malai tei keti chaincha to acid attacks and rapes then imagine a girl congenitally receives the objections and radar to direct the life of her choices,decisions,dress,lifestyle and every steps of her life, imagine how hard life would be for her,imagine how sadly she has to feel that, ''Life is beautiful''.