7 DAYS OF HAPPINESS 7

I CHOOSE … TO LOVE, TO BE LOVED

Love and the need to be loved is a very basic and primal human instinct. Endless love is not guaranteed, it doesn’t come with a hallmark of quality, integrity and its longevity if only it did.  The innate insecurity of love, rather perversely, is what makes it so desirable and the subject of such focus and this is one of the reasons why it is so powerful. Not every fairytale encounter leads to a happy ending sadly. Suppose, there is an incident acting as stimulus in  a life; there are two alternatives, ‘’love’’ and ‘’hate’’. Hate is reassuring and self-protective, because its message is simple, spontaneous and helps confirming people's belief in a just world. But ‘’love’’ is a long way that strengthens all forces in the world. Love remains critically important throughout human existence but it changes from those early, heady days of passion and almost drug-induced intensity to something more enduring and long-lasting. 

I am happy because I am in love. When I announce this, people have this instant feeling about a relationship but no, it has nothing to do with relationship status. I am in love with everything around me, living, non-living, forces in the world, vibes and aura I receive, flawsome and awesome me. I love the hands that left in the midway, I love the hand that took courage to stand by my side in my darkest phases, I love them all. I love rare appreciations, I love massive backlash, I love being ignored and unheard, I love being pampered with attention, I love immature me, I love mature me, I love just everything, why is there a need to hate ? Life has not always treated me as I loved it but I know it loves me back too sometimes, so I am okay (God forbid). I am in love with everything that has happened, is happening and will happen. I love people around me for their every share of experience. I love every shade of a person for whatsoever they are, I shall embrace it with an open heart. There are basically so few things in this world that I hate currently, trying to demote it to zero because there is nothing in the world to ‘’hate’’. Why should I hate anything just because it doesn't favour me. 

If there is anything in the world that I hate, it would be the word and meaning of ‘’hate’’ itself. I personally feel, ‘’hate’’ is such a strong word to be used upon anything. They are often misused for the word like anxiety, dislikes and differences. Almighty created everything with ‘’love’’, no single existence deserves ‘’hate’’ in this world. I didn’t always have this mentality. But during my ‘healing journey’, I comprehended that ‘’love’’, only ‘’love’’ can heal everything. Love is a healing energy. There is negative stuff going on around every individual's surroundings, pacing rapidly, but a small gesture of ‘’love’’ can heal a lot. It gives a ray of hope and selflessness. Irony is that we ‘’hate’’ because we just need ‘’inexhaustible love’’. Whenever we lose a person or a thing, technically we don’t really miss them but we feel sorry for loving it less, we miss the love that could be given. You can always give yourself a chance to love others and to love yourself. Everything is just an illusion. Then why not choose an illusion of ‘’love’’ that creates happiness in love and love in happiness. Love is deemed by everyone to be one of the most important things in my life and so happiness is hugely linked to being both loved and lover.

Whenever I think of happiness, the attitude of love is a must. Respect, forgiveness, humanity, gratefulness, serendipity, idyllic and almost every beautiful name that denotes beauty of life lies in the store of love.

I have found magical words, ‘’ l choose to … ‘’

Fun Fact : I am so happy that my impassioned series is completed.

Peace and XOXO.